You've been thinking about it for months. Maybe years. That trip where you don't have to hide who you are. Where you can actually relax without looking over your shoulder. Where "elevated experiences" means something literal and you don't have to code-switch your entire vacation. But every time you start planning, the questions pile up: Where do I even go? What's actually legal? How do I find safe places to stay? What if I mess up the laws? What if it's too intense? What if I